Date a boy who makes you happy, but marry him only if he makes you laugh deep-belly rumbles that hurt your ribs as they expand outwards. Date him when he sees that you’re hurting and he gives you a moment to feel that pain like a handprint spreading across your consciousness, marry him only if he can make you smile even while you’re gross sobbing. The world is not a kind place. You will feel a lot of pain. Make sure you are with someone who makes it all bearable. Humor is an excellent gauge of intelligence. Life gets boring. Find someone who makes the banal interesting.
demonize poor women for wanting to terminate pregnancy they can’t afford
demonize poor women for applying for government assistance to raise the child they didn’t want because they couldn’t afford it by referring to them as “welfare queens”
People run from rain but
in bathtubs full of
It’s always surprising to me how many young women think they have to be perfect. I rarely meet a young man who doesn’t think he already is.
Boyfriend: those high waisted shorts make your ass look like an old lady’s butt
Me: Didn’t stop your best friend from staring at it when I bent over to get to get something from the fridge.